I Hid So Well, I Didn’t Know I Was Hiding


I hide inside moments. I literally hide there. I am so afraid of change. Whenever something new is on its way to me, I hide inside time. Do you know why I created the Life Reentry work? Because I needed it to get myself out of all the hiding I was doing. I am the master hider. The master…

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Suicide Post: please read. If you have been personally touched by suicide, know someone who has, or just want to be better educated on the topic- please read. While I’m still processing, I know I have to get some thoughts down in order to keep from overflowing. This past weekend, I volunteered at a…

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Secondary Losses


I knew all about secondary grief long before I knew what to call it. Within a matter of weeks following my primary loss – the death of my wife – the secondary losses started accumulating. I didn’t see them coming. Didn’t know to expect them. I was a frog in a boiling pot, oblivious to the violent…

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What Is Your Big Decision After Loss?


There is so much loss in making big decisions. Most of them include saying goodbye to something you have done for a long time. An experience your brain is used to having. A way of life you have known. An expression of self. Making a big decision requires you to feel loss. And this is why we…

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I Hid So Well, I Didn’t Know I Was Hiding


I hide inside moments. I literally hide there. I am so afraid of change. Whenever something new is on its way to me, I hide inside time. Do you know why I created the Life Reentry work? Because I needed it to get myself out of all the hiding I was doing. I am the master hider. The master…

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Unencrypt


Suicide Post: please read. If you have been personally touched by suicide, know someone who has, or just want to be better educated on the topic- please read. While I’m still processing, I know I have to get some thoughts down in order to keep from overflowing. This past weekend, I volunteered at a…

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Secondary Losses


I knew all about secondary grief long before I knew what to call it. Within a matter of weeks following my primary loss – the death of my wife – the secondary losses started accumulating. I didn’t see them coming. Didn’t know to expect them. I was a frog in a boiling pot, oblivious to the violent…

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What Is Your Big Decision After Loss?


There is so much loss in making big decisions. Most of them include saying goodbye to something you have done for a long time. An experience your brain is used to having. A way of life you have known. An expression of self. Making a big decision requires you to feel loss. And this is why we…

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