I am so excited that you have found your way to my world of Second Firsts. I am Christina Rasmussen and I am here to raise the bar of life after loss.
I use the basic principles of brain science to change the patterns and habits of grief and help you reenter your life and your career one small step at a time.
My book SECOND FIRSTS: Live, Laugh, and Love Again was released by Hay House in November 2013, so everyone can have the tools they need to start over. I look forward to getting to know you and helping you in your journey.
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"It is like loss has taken us hostage and Christina is the hostage negotiator that causes loss to lose its grip, so true freedom can be restored."
- Sharmaine Hobbs
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The Life Starters is an action-based social network for people who have experienced devastating loss — whether from divorce, death, illness, betrayal, war, deportation or natural disaster. But The Life Starters isn't about trauma + grief. It's about love + reinvention.
The Message in A Bottle has changed the lives of over 20,000 people - it's time for you to take the journey and experience a new beginning for the next 30 days. Whether you are experiencing the loss of a loved one, a relationship, a job, or any other loss - it's time to start finding the glimmers of light as I guide you through 30 days of firsts.
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Christina's New Book!
With clear-spoken science + inspiring stories, SECOND FIRSTS: Live, Laugh and Love Again guides you through The 5-step Life Reentry Model: a revolutionary process that turns the whole notion of 'getting past grief' inside out — taking loss out of the spotlight, and placing life front + center.
Recent Blog Posts
There were no whispers, no words, nor any kind of guidance about all the other things that would happen after he died. Nobody mentioned the silence. The loss of financial security. The emptiness of the home. The fear of the night. The life ahead without my kids’ father. The graduations from school, their first awards, Read More
After he died I immersed myself in every book I could find that talked about where we go when we die. Every free moment I found where my little girls would be asleep or playing I spent it reading about the afterlife. You see I was looking for him, I wanted to see where he Read More