I am so excited that you have found your way to my world of Second Firsts. I am Christina Rasmussen and I am here to raise the bar of life after loss.
I use the basic principles of brain science to change the patterns and habits of grief and help you reenter your life and your career one small step at a time.
My book SECOND FIRSTS: Live, Laugh, and Love Again was released by Hay House in November 2013, so everyone can have the tools they need to start over. I look forward to getting to know you and helping you in your journey.
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"It is like loss has taken us hostage and Christina is the hostage negotiator that causes loss to lose its grip, so true freedom can be restored."
- Sharmaine Hobbs
The Message in A Bottle has changed the lives of over 20,000 people - it's time for you to take the journey and experience a new beginning for the next 30 days. Whether you are experiencing the loss of a loved one, a relationship, a job, or any other loss - it's time to start finding the glimmers of light as I guide you through 30 days of firsts.
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Christina's New Book!
With clear-spoken science + inspiring stories, SECOND FIRSTS: Live, Laugh and Love Again guides you through The 5-step Life Reentry Model: a revolutionary process that turns the whole notion of 'getting past grief' inside out — taking loss out of the spotlight, and placing life front + center.
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The Life Starters is an action-based social network for people who have experienced devastating loss — whether from divorce, death, illness, betrayal, war, deportation or natural disaster. But The Life Starters isn't about trauma + grief. It's about love + reinvention.
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Recent Blog Posts
The moon hangs the same way, unmovable. The stars shine with the same glitter, bright. The streets stay in their strong concrete, unchanged. The sun rises, unstoppable. The birds sing, still. Life continues almost as if nothing has changed. Unless life is seen through you. Then everything is different. The moon is heavier. The stars Read More
After someone we love dies we spend years in this untamed pain. We spend every waking hour tortured. We learn to survive the big, deadly waves. We get hit, over and over again. We get dragged in the water, and thrown out unconscious. Unconscious. But we are not dead. Just our mind is. Our feelings Read More